Secrets to living a happy life

My wife and I watched a DVD movie "The Secret" this evening. While it was very good, I think that I can do better -:)
  • Follow Joseph Campbell's advice to discover what you really love doing and make that your career: follow your bliss
  • Count the blessings in your life every day while minimizing the time you spend on negative thoughts
  • Take full responsibility for your life for a good feeling of self empowerment
  • Give up on trying to control other people and put your energies into your own thoughts and behaviors
  • Concentrate on the current moment with minimal time planning for the future and less time regretting things in the past

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